Hello everyone.
Looking for advice. (sorry this will be long, but I would really like opinions if anyone cares to read it)
Here is the story as short as I can make it.
First off, start off with a few facts.
1. I always try to be nice to people and try not to hurt their feelings.
2. For some reason, I have trouble verbally expressing love to people that I really do love, much less people that I do not love (in any type of love, family, friend boyfriend anything). I am just not very verbal with things like that for the most part.
Ok, now, background
My uncle (my dads brother) used to be married to a woman many years ago. I have no conscious memory of this woman at all. No memories, nothing with her. I do remember my family talking about her afterwards, and saying that they thought she was really mentally had something wrong.
I am sure I was around this woman when I was young, (like baby), but the only memories I have of her are just overhearing conversations about her. Couldnt pick her out in a lineup.
Fast forward till now.
She contacts me on Facebook.
She is sending me all kinds of I love you my long lost neice message, and writing on my wall, etc.
For instance, today she wrote,
it is so good to be talking to u, u r so beautiful, is ur mom out of the hospital yet, i can't wait to be able to go to see her, tell her i love her i have always loved her, and i pray for you and your family to be blessed above and beyond anything u can think or imagine, and then i pray angels
wings around the blessin...g, to keep it always and forever. i love u more than u know love ....
And she is sending me messages about how she would love to see me, and get in my pool, and I am so precious and all these things.
Ok, this creeps me out. I do not mean to be uncaring, but I do not feel this way about her. I dont even know her. I dont know how to respond to the things that she keeps on sending me.
I do not want to be mean to her, but I just dont know how to respond to all of this. And She sends me stuff all the time.
Ok, any advice appreciated...
Thanks!
Looking for advice. (sorry this will be long, but I would really like opinions if anyone cares to read it)
Here is the story as short as I can make it.
First off, start off with a few facts.
1. I always try to be nice to people and try not to hurt their feelings.
2. For some reason, I have trouble verbally expressing love to people that I really do love, much less people that I do not love (in any type of love, family, friend boyfriend anything). I am just not very verbal with things like that for the most part.
Ok, now, background
My uncle (my dads brother) used to be married to a woman many years ago. I have no conscious memory of this woman at all. No memories, nothing with her. I do remember my family talking about her afterwards, and saying that they thought she was really mentally had something wrong.
I am sure I was around this woman when I was young, (like baby), but the only memories I have of her are just overhearing conversations about her. Couldnt pick her out in a lineup.
Fast forward till now.
She contacts me on Facebook.
She is sending me all kinds of I love you my long lost neice message, and writing on my wall, etc.
For instance, today she wrote,
it is so good to be talking to u, u r so beautiful, is ur mom out of the hospital yet, i can't wait to be able to go to see her, tell her i love her i have always loved her, and i pray for you and your family to be blessed above and beyond anything u can think or imagine, and then i pray angels
wings around the blessin...g, to keep it always and forever. i love u more than u know love ....
And she is sending me messages about how she would love to see me, and get in my pool, and I am so precious and all these things.
Ok, this creeps me out. I do not mean to be uncaring, but I do not feel this way about her. I dont even know her. I dont know how to respond to the things that she keeps on sending me.
I do not want to be mean to her, but I just dont know how to respond to all of this. And She sends me stuff all the time.
Ok, any advice appreciated...
Thanks!